Christmas

It was a wonderful Christmas with my family and tribe. Here are some photos.

Letter to the slave

Master wants nothing more than a happy respectful well trained slave. It hurts Masters heart to see slave experience such emotional pain at the hands of others, but Master knows that this is a learning and growing experience for the slave. In Master life he has learned that the happiness, anger, fear, or discontent that W/we wear and share comes back multiplied by the number of people W/we see in a day. Focus on the good in life and be happy and the return will be great. Master knows how hard that is to do when feeling unhappy but it will work and happen.

Christmas Mouse

Switch Mike is the costume director for our local Ballet company. The artistic director for the ballet has ask for a new baby mouse costume for this years performance of The Nutcracker. Obviously Mike would have to try on the new costume right?

I had a very nice evening at the slaves quarters last night. Still no punishment! I may have to lay a slave trap to get the little turd into some trouble. HEHEHE

Nineteen days and counting

EFM

count down to Christmas

I have started the count down to Christmas. it is 20 days and counting. I have one gift purchased and one gift idea. I am so proud. Yes that was sarcasm.

We had a Family Christmas Tree decorating night with pizza and cocktails this week. Mike and I went out and bought some fun decorations for the slave Christmas tree. We got black, blue, and white balls of assorted sizes and silver ice sickle shaped ornament and red garland. Yep it is a leather themed tree. All and all I think it is a very festive little slave tree that any slave would be happy to have.

slaves quarters leather themed tree.

There is no real exciting punishment info on the M/s front to post about right now. Slave is being very well behaved and very focused on his service. My poor slave has been fighting a very persistent cold for the last week so he has had little opportunity to get into any big trouble. 

More to come on the Christmas count down and the fun slave punishments! 

Happy Holidays!?!?!

Well here we are another holiday season is upon us. The Holidays are not my favorite time of year. I am more of a lent Easter kinda Gay not thanksgiving Christmas Gay. That being said I have done my duty as a good friend and Master. Mike and I went last Saturday and put up and decorated my priests two Christmas trees. then yesterday and today we went down to Norman and I stripped all the dead lights out of a six foot pre lit tree and replaced them with 1200 new shine multi color LED's and then decorated the tree while Mike twirled up the rest of the house with all manor of greens and decorations. BAAAAAA HUMBUG! Mike picked up a tree for the slaves quarters (pre lit) so there will be another tree there as well as the tree that Mike put up at the big house.
I am looking forward to a holiday season with slave and Mike it should prove to improve My out look on the whole messy season of cheer.
Now for the big question what to buy a slave for Christmas i am take all suggestion just leave them in the comments for this post.

Good Slave Happy Home

Just for the record. We have a very good slave. I know many of my posts are about training or punishing our slave. The truth of the matter is that the slave is a very good servant. Our slave works very hard at two jobs outside of the home and still manages to keep the floors hand mopped and the house spotless. It is true the slave is still learning and slave does make some missteps along the way, but he is a very valuable member of our family. I could post more about the day to day of life with two H/homes and all the jobs we as a family juggle to have the life we have in this economy, but I don't think any one wants to read about the dogs trip to the vet to get its glands expressed or slaves trip to the dentist for teath cleaning.

Switch Mike did however just get an art show at a new restaurant here in town. It is in the down town underground. We are all Very excited about that. It started with slave talking to the owner of one of slaves regular eateries about how good Mikes art is and now there is a show. !!!! 

There we go non beating blog. 

More flogging to come in the next blog that is a promise MUAHAHAH! (real evil laugh) ;-)

E.F.M.

Punishment

Twenty minutes kneeling on rice writing "This slave has embarrassed his Master, his mother, and himself for is lack of social etiquette.

DC part and a family trip

Last week W/we where invited as a family to a play party. The family was very excited to attend the party and have a trip out of town. W/we went down the day before to have a night at the leather bar and some drinks with like minded people. As nights on the town go this night was not a winner. The family had been up to long and was tired. We left the bar and went back to the Hotel. It was a very tense  emotional night in the room with some fire works. the next morning after "some" sleep Mike and I came to terms with what was wrong and agreed to start over and move on with the day. W/we laid down some hard rules for the slave and went out for breakfast and some photo fun.  

Master getting carried away. 

Master and Switch Mike trick riding 

The play party turned out to be a fun event. we got to spend some time with new friends. Mike and I cuffed slave to a frame and took all of my floggers to slaves back and front for about an hour. fun for the whole family ;-) no lasting marks but a good scene for the party attendees.

Tonight I will administer the punishment for the bad behavior of the slave during O/our trip and for his protocol infractions for last week. pics to be posted in the next blog. 

24 hours of service

This week I told my slave I would spend all day Tuesday with him. I got to the slaves quarters at about 8:15 am. After taking care of the dogs I told the slave we could spend the morning in bed "badgering". At about noon we took the dogs for a walk then went for lunch. After lunch it was time to go through the slaves cloths and weed out the too large, too flamboyant, and the down right offensive to Master. One 40 gallon tote later my slave has Master approved professional clothes for busness meeting/lunches. I also approved some vanilla bar options for when we go out in Okc. After some desperately needed slave grooming it was "playtime". In the middle of play time slave decides to inform Master that he started to masterbate the night before while watching "porn". Let the punishment begin! 90 swats with a now broken ping pong paddle and and 10 more with a cane/crop, puppy made me, the slave knows yet again Master is the only person to touch O/our cock. Next time it will be just the cane. Read PAIN and bruising. This morning Master woke to his slave kissing cuddling and nuzzling. Saying it had been the best 24 hour of his life. I think slave may want the punishment now and again. ;)

Punishment for not telling

Through all the troubled learning my slave had last month. I allowed that the emotions where punishment enough for the trouble the slave brought on himself. That being said I had to punish the slave for the lie of not tell Master when he willfully broke with protocol. It took over two weeks for it to wear on slaves heart enough to tell his master. After slave told me of the break in protocol and the reason it happened I had no problem with it. I did however have issue with the lies. This was the second time slave has lied in this manner. A beating was the punishment for the first time and it was to be again. This beating was to be harder and longer. In the end I warmed slaves ass with fifty swats on each cheek with the paddle. Then we talked and made slave understand what he was being punished for. After talking I gave slave the choice take this and his emotions to bed and suffer or more swats to clear his conscience he chose swats. Second choice another hundred with the paddle or fifty with slave least favorite tool a riding crop. Slave chose the crop. The pix are after the punishment. Slave would not stay still so there are swats on his back to remind him to stay still.

Halloween block party in Dallas

We went as a family to the Dallas halloween block party last weekend. Switch Mike found some fun costume stuff on line and showed me a net body suite for the slave. My slave was not enthusisatic about the possibility of wearing a fishnet body suite for halloween. Being the Very understanding Master that I am I cam up with an alternative for the slave. The slave was not any more eager to wear the alternative, (Evil Grin) but master gave not option it will be this or that. when it came down to it Master was not really in the mood to spend $200 on a costume so the slave had only one option in the end. Switch Mike and I had a fun time with the leather and spray paint and made our own leather masks. Maybe we have found our calling. ;-)

block party pick of the family

Switch mike and slave 

Master and slave 

The sleeve has started

Five hours with my very sexy tattoo guy and the sleeve is outlined with some color.

Slaves new protocol

Master and slave agreed in the beginning that we would assess slaves service and  revisit slaves protocol once a month. This month My slave has had some hard day/weeks with is protocol and his position, so the newest addition to slaves protocol is that when slave is cleaning or serving Master when master is not H/home slave is to were a muzzle, gag, or hood. this will help slave to focus on his slavery and his task, and it will insure that slave knows that Master is always in control even when Master is not home. These are pics of slave doing Masters sheets. The hoody is  because the dyer is in the garage and slave has to go out side of the house where the neighbors would see and not understand the protocol.

OML

The trip to OML in Tulsa was a success. We met new friends, slave got whipped by Mason, Mason tried to teach me to use a whip, and a very Hot "man/boy" was awarded the title os Oklahoma Mr. Leather. Oh and we when to a play space and put on a good scene for the five other men at the party. It seems that I every time I go to a dungan it is a very slow turnout. Oh well we had fun and slave has a nice deep bruise from the last bite I gave him. Really the only thing that sucked about the whole trip is that the bars in Oklahoma still allow smoking and every thing we had on had to be fumigated after the trip.

let the smoking begin

Rough week for those left be hind

This has been a rough week for Masters and slave. We have had some growing pains this week with jealousy and expirations. As it is today things seem to have settled down. I talked slave down from the jealousy and explained that I am a quiet Master who prefers to have thing run smoothly without me being a drill sergeant. That being said I laid down some law to exert my control "forcefully" slave it to remain of all gay social media until further notice as punishment and proof that Master is in control. Slave seems to be thrilled that Master took a heavy hand on slaves little bit of freedom.
Tomorrow slave will be driving Me to Tulsa for OML. It should be a fun night in Tulsa with all the leather folks. Will post an update about the trip to OML and how slave is dealing with a firmer hand.

this may be slaves new protocol

The Family that Inks Together!

Oct 17 i go in for my first five hour sitting with my tattoo guy to start my left sleeve.  The sleeve will be of a Dragon and a Phenix fighting. I am very excited about the new art. I have many tattoos all over my body but this one will be the biggest single tattoo. the next biggest is creation on my back it took three sittings and two artists but it looks great.

pull my finger

My right arm is all the men that have touched my life. My first long term partner who died of leukemia, my currant partner, my grand father on my mothers side, and my father. I am designing a tattoo for slave for my right arm it will be his SLRN. last month slave and switch Mike both got tattoos slaves is his QR Code. On a good day with good light and the right app on your smart phone you can scan my slave and see his page at the slave registration web site.

slaves QR Code 

slave right after the tattoo

        Switch Mike got a Fabulous flying monkey on his left arm as his first tattoo. Switch mike is the squad leader for the flying monkey ;) don't make me send My flying monkey after you. 

go big or go home

We are an Inked and pierced family. I will jeep you posted on the new ink and modifications. 

for tonight its drinks at the slaves quarters and dinner out as a family. This will probably be the last family dinner before Switch Mike heads off to Ohio for a very long week. the slave and I will miss him much! 

just a few easy laid back days

It looks that life may be settling into a calm bit. Well for a few more days till switch Mike takes of for Ohio for a week. He is going to be the chief support and coach for a friend that will be competing for Miss Gay America. (Break  leg Roxie Hart!) last night I had a great if hard work out with the slave then went to the slaves quarters and had an even better night of service from My slave. The slave served Mater a nice glass of red wine with smoked salmon, cheese, and crackers. While slave prepared grilled chicken and baked yams I make wilted kale (slave is going on a new STRICT triglyceride lowering diet). Master had a very relaxing time being served by slave. After dinner Master gave slave some social training that was required after a slip during our trip to Beyond Vanilla Dallas.
Tonight was a nice quiet evening at home with Switch Mike. I did an hour on the elliptical then when to the Sunflower Market to pick up some dinner. I cooked bork chops with collard greens and  orzo. Yum! Now Switch Mike is with Roxie doing some last minute prep. So i thought I would share my last two Very relaxing Very happy evenings with my partner Switch Mike and my slave.
this may be a very boring blog but some times that is the good part of life. The quiet peaceful night.

Good Night Moon
Master Gudthng

Beyond Vanilla Dallas

As a family we went to a very informative and entertaining Leather event in Dallas called Beyond Vanilla. lots of fun people and lots of education. It is very nice to get out and be among like minded people. The sad part for me was that I could not attend all of the classes, but I did enjoy and learn from every class I attended. The first class slave and I attended was a master slave class by Master Obsidian and slave namaste. It was by far the best class for Master and slave's first event class. It set the tone for a very good weekend. We also attended ad wax-play class that has the whole family ready to cover slave in hot wax! The last class that we attend as a family unit was a leather relationship class given by a Daddy and boy with input from a former second boy of Daddy's that was very very helpful to the growth and understanding of our family dynamic. I met several Sirs and Masters that I would like to spend more time with and learn from. We went to a play space and had a grand time flogging slave and switch Mike. After spending time at that play space that was pansexual we went back to the event Hotel and availed ourselves of the all male play-space for more flogging of slave and switch Mike and a grand time was had by "All" the family and the other men in the play-space with us watching our scene. In the all Male space we felt free to have some oral fun with switch. As I flogged Switch Mike, slave gave hime head. Then switch Mike and I strapped slave to the cross and had some duel flogging time with slave. Switch Mike concentrated on slaves back and shoulders as I wailed on my slaves very nice ass and QR code tattoo. No there was no blood or permanent damage to the QR code (that tattoo cost to much to damage.) Sadly there are no pics of the scenes. Bad form and all taking pics in a group play space. I am posting other pics from the weekend though that is until some one looks at them and threatens to cut my cock off if this one or that one doesn't come down for what ever reason. WINK WINK I love you both and you are both crazy sexy don't be overly critical about how you think you look in the pics. please.

At Th Eagle Dallas 

Switch Mike and Me

Master and slave

salve and Switch Mike

slave grooming (he looks so happy)

Master likes a smooth slave hole and balls

an after play snuggle ;-)